This questionnaire has been designed to identify the key interpersonal factors that maintain behavioural conflict in relationships. The results can be used to identify perceived differences and highlight important targets for behavioural change. The questionnaire can be completed independently by both partners and results can be used to explore differences in perception and behaviour. Please rate each statement as honestly as possible using the following rating scale

Welcome to your Couples Conflict Questionnaire

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Your new question!On the whole, I am satisfied with myself
Blaming the other person when things go wrong
Using over generalisations during disagreements "you always, you never."
Striking at an emotional vulnerability or weakness to hurt the other person
Pointing out mistakes and inadequacies
Using insults and Name calling
Using Hostile humour, sarcasm or mockery
Showing negative body language and using a negative tone of voice
Demeaning the other person in front of other people.
Making decisions without concern for the other person's feelings
Playing the victim or innocent party
Yes butting - starting by agreeing and then disagreeing.
Making excuses or deflecting the causes to circumstances beyond ones control
Matching a criticism or complaint with a criticism or complaint of one's own
Repeating one's self without paying attention to what the other person is saying
Using stony silence during conflict
Avoiding eye-contact after disagreements
Using monosyllabic mutterings or speaking under one's breath
Changing the subject in an attempt to avoid the issue
Leaving the room or walking away from conflict

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